I Coached a Microsoft Director Who Failed 3 Amazon Interviews … Here’s the “Bar Raiser” Feedback That Changed Everything

He had the résumé.

💼 15 years at Microsoft.

👥 Led 200+ person teams.

🚀 Shipped products used by millions.

He was targeting an Amazon Web Services (AWS) Principal (L7) role

Six months. Three interviews with AWS.

❌ Three rejections.

We worked together, and I provided “Bar Raiser feedback.” It was brutal but precise:

“Talks about team achievements. Can’t isolate personal impact.”

That single line exposed what most senior leaders miss about Amazon interviews:

You’re not there to showcase your team’s wins. You’re there to prove YOU drove them.

🧩 Point 1: The “I” Transformation

Every story starting with “My team…” became:

➡️ “I decided to…”

Every “We achieved…” became:

➡️ “I influenced the team to…”

Awkward at first — essential for Amazon.

The signal? Amazon wants ownership, not passengers.

⚙️ Point 2: The Mechanism Proof

Amazon doesn’t care that revenue grew 40%.

📌 They care how you made it repeatable.

His new answer structure:

• 🧭 The problem I identified (not inherited)

• ⚙️ The mechanism I created

• 📊 The metrics I chose (not default KPIs)

• 🔁 What still works without me

This is the stuff Bar Raisers zoom in on.

💥 Point 3: The Failure Reframe

Original story:

“Market conditions changed our timeline.”

New story:

“I misread early signals. Cost us $2M. Here’s the process I built so it never happens again.”

No excuses.

No finger-pointing.

🧠 100% ownership + learning + mitigation.

🧨 Point 4: The Leadership-Without-Authority Test

Amazon Bar Raisers hunt for one thing:

Can you influence when you have zero formal power?

His story:

🔥 Leading a company-wide security response as a mid-level manager while the CISO was unreachable.

“Someone had to decide. I decided. Here’s how I got 5 VPs to follow my lead.”

This is the strongest signal in Amazon’s LPs: Ownership + Bias for Action + Earn Trust.

🎉 The Result?

Fourth interview. Same company. “Different” person.

💼 Offer: L7 Principal Engineer

💰 Signing bonus so big he texted me at midnight.

But here’s what mattered more to him:

“I finally learned to own my career story instead of hiding behind my team’s.”

🎯 Your Move

Pull up your best achievement story.

Count how many times you say:

➡️ “We”

versus

➡️ “I”

If it’s more than 2:1, you’re interviewing for yesterday’s job — not the next one.

Amazon interviews aren’t about being selfish.

They’re about proving you can drive results with autonomy + ownership.

That’s what Bar Raisers are trained to find.

That’s what every hiring manager needs to hear.

💬 What’s the hardest interview feedback you’ve received that actually changed your trajectory?